Happy Best Friends Day!
We're Better Together...Forever
In a world that’s often too found, too loud, and too much, having a best friend can be a true lifesaver. The kind of friend who doesn’t flinch when life gets bad, glad, or mad. Who knows your habits, your highs, and your heartbreaks—and somehow still shows up for like every event is a red carpet event. That kind of friendship isn’t just special. It’s sacred.
Today is Best Friends Day, and I can’t think of a better moment to celebrate one of the most important people in my life: Drew.
We’ve been friends for over 30 years. Three decades of celebrations, confessions, laughs, losses, roadtrips, and more. We’ve been through the kind of things that most people would need a flowchart and a therapist to process—and there has been a few of the latter…on my part—but we ultimately made it through…always better together.
I don’t talk about our friendship publicly much—partly out of respect for his privacy, partly because I’m fiercely protective of our relationship. True friendships can be so rare and precious that I almost want to keep them offline, away from the noise, like a favorite song you don’t want everyone to know about.
But today feels like the right time to say something out LOUD…AND PROUD:
DREW, THANK YOU!
Thank you for showing up—not just when things were easy and fun, but when life got hard and scary. You've literally been there through thick and thin, a constant presence in the middle of my ups, downs, and all around. You've supported my creative chaos, encouraged my passionate pursuits, and held up the proverbial mirror when I needed a reality check or a system reboot.
Personally and professionally, you’ve had my back through it all. And no words will ever fully capture how deeply grateful I am—or how much I love you.
Every time I felt like giving up or giving in, there you were—steady when I was spinning, hopeful when I was lost. You’ve always been the one to remind me I’m not alone…especially when I needed a friendly reminder most. I can only hope I’ve been half the friend to you that you’ve been to me.
Much love and light to Drew…and to all my other boos and friends too!
Clint 🌈✌️
ON FRIENDSHIP = WORDS OF WISDOM
"My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me."
Henry Ford
"Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together."
Woodrow Wilson
"How much good inside a day? Depends how good you live 'em.
How much love inside a friend? Depends how much you give 'em."
Shel Silverstein
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BIRTHDAYS
1867 = Frank Lloyd Wright = American architect
1903 = Marguerite Yourcenar = French novelist 🌈
1927 = Jerry Stiller = American actor and comedian
1933 = Joan Rivers = American comedian, actor, and tv host
1940 = Nancy Sinatra = American singer and actor
1944 = Boz Scaggs = American singer-songwriter
1945 = Donna Deitch = American filmmaker 🌈
1950 = Kathy Baker = American actor
1950 = Sônia Braga = Brazilian actor and producer
1951 = Bonnie Tyler = Welsh singer-songwriter
1955 = Griffin Dunne = American actor, director and producer
1955 = Tim Berners-Lee = English computer scientist and WWW inventor
1957 = Scott Adams = American author and illustrator
1958 = Keenen Ivory Wayans = American actor, comedian, and filmmaker
1960 = Mick Hucknall = English singer-songwriter
1961 = Mary Bonauto = American lawyer and activist 🌈
1966 = Julianna Margulies = American actor
1971 = Mark Feuerstein = American actor
1976 = Eion Bailey = American actor
1983 = Kim Stolz = American model and tv personality 🌈
EVENTS
1953 = The United States Supreme Court rules in District of Columbia v. John R. Thompson Co. that restaurants in Washington, D.C., cannot refuse to serve black patrons.
1984 = Homosexuality is decriminalized in New South Wales.
1993 = RuPaul releases his debut album Supermodel of the World.
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“There is nothing more uncommon than common sense.”
Frank Lloyd Wright
“The heart is the chief feature of a functioning mind.”
Frank Lloyd Wright
You guys are so lucky. I do not know the meaning of friend, nor I do understand the concept. Being a truck driver, I am very transient and cover a lot of distance, so I'm always on the move with no time to slow down. While I know so many people all over planet earth, and so many people know me, none of these connections would I call "friendships". Just casual acquaintances who I either see a lot of, or very little if at all. I've only had a single short-lived relationship back in the late 80's prior to his passing of AIDS. I've been alone ever since. My only daily contact with people is through a windshield, a rearview mirror, or pushing my way through a crowd. I have learned through many trials, it is best to keep a low profile and keep my mouth shut as I am not very good at conversation and usually manage to fluff that up at every turn. This mostly stems from my childhood where if I uttered a word, my parents would beat me senseless until I was black 'n blue. The physical and emotional scars are deep and something I never outgrew. As an adult, I've learned to isolate myself from others, so I don't have to speak and embarrass myself, even here at the campground, I keep silent and to myself and only engage when prompted to. That is why I work on all their golf carts when I'm not on the road, because it keeps me functional for a purpose without imposing myself on others. When guys here at the campground try to get close to me, it's not because they want to be around me but rather because they want something ie; working on their golf carts, fixing something on their RV trailers, or help to do something else. So while I am not wanted, I am needed, because I help make the world go round.
I didn't know such a day exists! I have to say, I've had many really good friends, some have called ME their best friend even when I didn't feel it. I find the whole concept hard to commit to. I often feel disappointed by people (and I in turn probably disappoint them) so it's hard for me to truly say someone is my BEST friend. Of course I'd have to say that my husband of 36 years, Frank, would have to really be that person in my life.