I've found that people who advise you to 'let it go' usually make two assumptions. One is that the thing you let go of stays where you left it. The other is that the damage caused by the thing mystically, magically undoes/repairs itself. More often than not, neither of those things is the case.
I've found that people who advise you to 'let it go' usually make two assumptions. One is that the thing you let go of stays where you left it. The other is that the damage caused by the thing mystically, magically undoes/repairs itself. More often than not, neither of those things is the case.
What I've found works pretty well is to let it go with the expectation it or the sequalae will reappear and that (more importantly) I don't have an obligation to respond no matter how many people say otherwise.
I've found that people who advise you to 'let it go' usually make two assumptions. One is that the thing you let go of stays where you left it. The other is that the damage caused by the thing mystically, magically undoes/repairs itself. More often than not, neither of those things is the case.
What I've found works pretty well is to let it go with the expectation it or the sequalae will reappear and that (more importantly) I don't have an obligation to respond no matter how many people say otherwise.