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Why thank you, Jerry. Appreciate the kind words and sharing your experience. While I came out young-ish (21-22), I don't think there's a "best" time. We gays do it on our own days and ways as they like to says. (Yes, I'm the dad-joke, rhyming kinda gay sometimes. lol)

I don't worry about str8s...but some of my best friends are str8 (mostly women). They're lovely allies. And I know a few guys who are more that comfortable in their own sexuality and skin and find them adorable. Platonically of course.

As for overcompensation, they're probably just jealous you own a home. That's a problem most will never have. Congrats and good luck!

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Got a laugh and a kick out of "That's a problem most will never have." I feel most Gays are nicer than the run of the mill "str8". It's weird how many "str8s" have come onto me even those with a belly that precedes them by a foot. Not interested in casual sex so just ignore them.

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Gotta (belly by a foot) laugh out of that myself. Sounds like my kinda guys, but I swore their kind off cuz I can't afford the therapy bill. Saving up for a house. lol

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