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Dr Ray Lightbown's avatar

I am appreciative of your biographical information on all sorts of people. In this case, I knew that Chris had a much younger lover, Don, who was an artist. Thank you.

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Clint Collide 🌈✌️'s avatar

Thank you, Ray…I suspect you and Mr. Barchardy would get along marvelously. Cheers

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Dr Ray Lightbown's avatar

I think that is right, Clint. When I was 31 a 19yrs old arts undergrad fell for me as his first boyfriend. It didn't work out as he wouldn't work on his art during the day when I was at work but he would paint when I went to bed and play loud music that kept me awake. We parted amicably. When I was 38 I had a multitalented 19 yr old business undergrad. Again it didn't last but he and his husband are loving friends of mine to this day. I think that I parented them well, as I have parented other younger gay and straight men. I guess that my strengths are in being romantic, loving, caring, teaching, guiding, healing. As I have said before, I am not very horny, though I enjoy sex. The younger men in my life have had high libidos.

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Clint Collide 🌈✌️'s avatar

Thank you for sharing, dear Ray. I’ve had a few similar relationships in my day. While none were β€œsuccessful” in a traditional sense, I still look back fondly on most of my May-December flings. I still keep in touch with a few too, boo. :-*

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