
Today marks Boy Georgeās 61st birthday, and I canāt think of a better way to celebrate than by revisiting the moment I first āmetā him.
It was 1984. I was a kid. I donāt remember if it was live or Memorex, but I remember exactly how it felt to watch Boy George on Donahue for the first time.
My mom and I sat there together, wide-eyed, and mesmerized. Neither of us knew what to say to each other during or after the interview. But we both seemed to know something would never be quite the same between us afterward.
Here was this unapologetically flamboyant, eloquent, and defiant figure, facing down a live studio audience filled with skepticism, confusion, and some hostility. But Georgeādressed in a Liberace-meets-New-Romantic ensembleādidnāt flinch. He met every question with disarming wit, intelligence, and radical calm.
Watching it now, forty-one years later, the interview plays like a time capsule and a celebrity masterclass. Itās easy to get caught up in the sequins and eyeshadow, but I urge you: look past the glam.
Listen to what Boy George is saying about the narrow-mindedness of society, the limits of gender norms, and the absurdity of peopleās obsession with appearances over talents. Boy George didnāt just preach acceptanceāhe embodied it.
Boy George was, is, and will always be a trailblazer.
This 1984 interview was more than a cultural moment; it was a seismic shift in what could be said, seen, and heard on American television. And for my mom and me? It cracked something open. A door into possibility. A mirror held up to authenticity.
Happy birthday, Boy George. Thank you for being so far ahead of your timeāand for making it a little easier for the rest of us to catch up.
Keep calm and carry on!
Clint šāļø
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āIn a way, the most political thing you can do is be yourself.ā
Boy George
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Boy George
Thanks Clint and George. I just finished reading Running with the Bulls, My Life with the Hemingways, by Valerie Hemingway, married to Ernest's youngest son Gregory, who later became Gloria and died in a women's prison after no one bailed him out. Now reading Dear Papa, The Letters of Patrick and Ernest Hemingway
Hey Clint, Hmmmm BG I can take or leave him, it all depends. Still he has balls to do what he does/did. Cheers DougT š«š“š¬š§