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Dr Ray Lightbown's avatar

Always do things that you love to do. It's nice if it pleases other people but it is a waste of time and effort to keep pleasing others. [How boring if everyone liked the same things, food, art, music, activities. Too conformist.]

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Clint Collide ๐ŸŒˆโœŒ๏ธ's avatar

Ainโ€™t that the truth. Sadly, Iโ€™ve run into a few too many โ€œcreativesโ€ lately who spend more time measuring the โ€œsuccessโ€ of their work than making their work. A waste of time and energy in my book. The platforms want to gamify everything. I just want to art everything. :-)

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Dr Ray Lightbown's avatar

I have been lucky that money has never motivated me (I have been down to my last 100 pounds/dollars - more than once - but something has happened before I've reached zero. The Universe is on my side). I have been horrified to note that many younger people ask if doing a law degree, a medical degree, a chemistry degree or any other occupation is "worth it". I know that they mean "money".

I have lived too many lifetimes and I believe that it is best to do whatever you love or like to do and then you will never "work" a day in your life.

The "me, me, me" tendency to see one's worth by how many Facebook likes you get is abhorent to me. Do things which make you happy and, hopefully, make other people happy, healthy, safe, growing.

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Clint Collide ๐ŸŒˆโœŒ๏ธ's avatar

I sense luck has been only a part of the secret to your success, dear one. Being present and ready to dig in (and dig deep as necessary) seems at least as important. But Iโ€™m open to learning more from your experiencesโ€ฆas always. Cheers, Ray!

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