Heroes + Villains + Everything In Between
Good vs Evil = Me + You + Everyone We Know
“In each of us, two natures are at war – the good and the evil. All our lives the fight goes on between them, and one of them must conquer. But in our own hands lies the power to choose – what we want most to be we are.”
Robert Louis Stevenson
This quote has been ringing in my head lately, reminding me that no one is completely good or bad, right or wrong.
Sometimes, we’re the hero. Sometimes, the villain. Often, we’re both at once. Human.
In The Dark Night, Batman says he can be whatever Gotham needs him to be—hero, vigilante, scapegoat. He didn’t cling to being seen as good; he clung to purpose. And maybe that’s the point.
Life isn’t about perfect morality or always being the “good guy.” It’s about navigating the push and pull of our natures and choosing, moment by moment, who we want and need to be or become.
We all have that power. In the heat of an argument, we can lash out or listen.
When faced with injustice, we can act or stay silent.
We’re shaped not just by the grand gestures but by the quiet choices that build our character. And yes, sometimes—far too often in my case—we get it wrong. We fall short. We hurt others. We do and say things we can’t undo or unsay.
But every new day hands us a new chance to recalibrate, to rewrite our story.
Historians may tell their versions of our lives. The media may craft their narratives. Our nears, dears, and queers will all have their opinions and points of view.
But at the end of the day, the only one who can truly define us is…us.
We are heroes.
We are villains.
We are everything in between.
We are shades of light and dark.
We are shades of grey in a world of black and white.
The war between good and evil within us?
It’s not about victory—it’s about the dance.
So ask yourself: What do you want most to be today?
Because, like Stevenson said, “…What we want most to be we are.”
So choose wisely.
Best wishes for more love, peace, and understanding….
Clint
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1821 = Gustave Flaubert = French novelist 🌈
1863 = Edvard Munch = Norwegian painter 🌈
1893 = Edward G. Robinson = American actor
1915 = Frank Sinatra = American singer, actor, and producer
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1927 = Robert Noyce = American inventor and Intel Corporation co-founder
1928 = Helen Frankenthaler = American painter
1932 = Bob Pettit = American basketball player and coach
1937 = Connie Francis = American singer
1940 = Dionne Warwick = American singer
1945 = Tony Williams = American drummer, composer, and producer
1947 = Wings Hauser = American actor
1949 = Bill Nighy = English actor
1952 = Cathy Rigby = American gymnast and actor
1957 = Sheila E. = American singer and musician
1970 = Jennifer Connelly = American actor
1970 = Regina Hall = American actor
1972 = Brandon Teena = American subject of Boys Don't Cry 🌈
1975 = Mayim Bialik = American actress, neuroscientist, and author
1996 = Lucas Hedges = American actor
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1917 = Father Edward J. Flanagan founds Boys Town as a farm village for wayward boys.
1946 = United Nations accepts six Manhattan blocks as a gift from John D. Rockefeller Jr.
1969 = Police enter the Continental Baths in NYC and arrest three patrons and three employees, charging the patrons with lewd and lascivious acts and the employees with criminal mischief. The raid is only the first of several on the Continental for the following weeks.
1970 = A struggling young pianist and songwriter takes a day job performing at NYC’s Continental Baths. His name is Barry Manilow.
2000 = SCOTUS releases its 5-4 decision in Bush v. Gore, settling the recount dispute in Florida's 2000 presidential election in George W. Bush’s favor, handing his the presidency.
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Choosing. Haerisis, if I got the transcription of the Greek correct (probably not): "heresy," in the bare meaning of the word. I'm with you. Heresy it is.
Whatever justice is, fwiw, I seriously doubt that it involves lakes of fire and eternal punishment for people who earnestly try for the good, but can't fulfill ridiculous norms. The four most powerful words in English, to my mind, are: "I do not know." Not used often enough.
I agree. But, for me, we are not divided selves but a fluid mix, a changeable kaleidoscope. Not shades of grey but colours, pale pastels, dark murkinesses, or vibrantly startling colours.