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Dr Ray Lightbown's avatar

For most of my adult life I have avoided using must, should, ought to or gotta (in any verb tense) - for myself or others I meet. I take responsibility for my actions and inactions but I am not part of the blame and shame crew. "I am what I am. My own special creation."

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Clint Collide 🌈✌️'s avatar

I continue learning these lessons. I definitely grew up amongst the β€œblame and shame” crew. I think my mother was its founder. Or at least an interim president. :-p

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