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Dr Ray Lightbown's avatar

I am going to be heretical. I have had very little interest in cars (or other machines). They are lesser beings. I do not anthropomorphise them though I admit to speaking harshly to them when they do not work as I desire.

I never wanted to drive a car but my parents told me it would be useful skill. I never enjoyed it but I drove for 60 years in the UK and latterly in Thailand. I stopped driving last year and sold my car. The sense of relief and peace of mind is quite rewarding. Getting Uber-type taxis (Grab and Bolt are the local versions) feels food.

All that said, I can empahise with all that you said and I celebrate your reunion with your car, at last.

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Clint Collide 🌈✌️'s avatar

I share your “I’d rather not” approach to cars. While I had a brief love of autos in my teenage years, since becoming an adult, I’ve found the expense of keeping them going is a pain in the arse, so I tend to buy less flashy and more reliable cars…to avoid mechanics at all costs. Literally and figuratively. Living in LA though, it’s a damn near necessity to daily living…I wish public transportation were more available and reliable or Uber/etc less expensive. Alas, we do the best we can, right? Glad you’ve made the right calls for you, boo. Cheers!

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Dr Ray Lightbown's avatar

Thank you for another mutual and similar attitude. I realise that in the US the ownership of a personal transport engine is almost a necessity. In the UK from which I retired, the land is small and there is excellent (though trains can be expensive nowadays) public transport. Here in Thailand, a similarly sized land, trains are less organised but buses are prolific, cheap and - like cars - consume time. Taxis are comparably expensive as cars within this city. Waiting times for picking up customers are usually less than 10 minutes. I am relaxed and driving sent my blood pressure too high. For you, I'm just happy that you are healing and sorting things out.

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Clint Collide 🌈✌️'s avatar

Thank you for you continued love and support, Ray. Planning to reach out to you next week, once I get all my lil duckies in a row. Too much quacking going on around here for my taste, but I must admit it’s kinda fun. :-p

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