
The Struggle To Chill..Is Real
"Relax? Don't Do It?" Has Frankie Ever Been To Hollywood?
Born and raised in the Type A way, I struggle to chill. Even when Iām not feeling wellālike todayāI feel the need to be productive. Stupid sinuses are slowing me down. Probably for the best. Iāll take the hint and take the day offā¦
Until a few weeks ago, I typically started work around 4 am and usually didnāt clock out until at least 5 pm.
Even with occasional breaks, that schedule makes for a lonnnnng day.
I truly love what I do, but letās just say that pace is not sustainable. At least not for the long haul. Iām very proud of how much Iāve been able to create and curate over the past year, but I wouldnāt recommend anyone do it my way.
Yesterday, I posted my first new montage on YouTube in three weeks. It was fun to make, but I realized Iām still a lot more tired than I thought. I had planned to post a new montage on Substackā¦but that was overly ambitious. So look for it in the coming days. Clint needs a day (or two) off.
Over my many years of creative play and work, Iāve found thereās a fine, fine line between dedication and burnout, and Iāve been walking it for a while now.
When you work for yourself, the pressure to keep producing, keep engaging, keep growing never really stops. Thereās always another idea, another post, another project waiting in the wings. And when you genuinely love what you do, itās even harder to step back and take a breath.
Iāve been telling myself that I need to slow down, that I need to rest, that I need toādare I say it?ārelax. But actually doing it? Thatās another story. I think part of me has always associated rest with laziness, even though I know thatās ridiculous.
Rest is necessary. Recovery is part of the process. Even machines need downtime, and Iām certainly not a machineā¦though I use a few to do my work.
The funny thing is, when I do take a breakāwhen I force myself to stop for a bitāI actually feel better. My ideas flow more freely, my creativity sparks in ways it doesnāt when Iām running on fumes. But still, the guilt creeps in. The feeling that I should be doing something, anything, to move the needle forward.
So, long story short, Iām trying to find a balance.
Iām trying to remind myself that taking time off doesnāt mean Iām slacking. Iām trying to reframe relaxation as a necessary part of the creative process. And Iām taking inspiration from artists, musicians, and creatives who understand that rest fuels the work, not detracts from it.
Frankie Goes To Hollywoodās āRelaxā is now officially on repeat. Maybe Iāll do more than just sing along as I steam ahead. Maybe, just maybe, Iāll learn how to relax.
Old dogs can learn new tricks, right? RIGHT?! š¤šš„ø
Clint šāļø
P.S. Big thanks to
for sharing this live performance of āRelax.āON THIS DAY = MARCH 2
BIRTHDAYS
1886 = Willis H. O'Brien = American animator and director
1894 = Renata Borgatti = Italian classical pianist š
1904 = Dr. Seuss = American children's book writer, poet, and illustrator
1905 = Marc Blitzstein = American composer and lyricist š
1914 = Martin Ritt = American actor and film director
1917 = David Goodis = American author and screenwriter
1917 = Desi Arnaz = Cuban-American actor, singer, and producer
1919 = Eddie Lawrence = American actor, singer, and playwright
1919 = Jennifer Jones = American actor
1921 = Ernst Haas = Austrian-American photographer and journalist
1930 = John Cullum = American actor and singer
1930 = Tom Wolfe = American journalist and author
1938 = Lawrence Payton = American singer-songwriter and producer
1942 = Lou Reed = American singer-songwriter, guitarist, producer, and actor
1943 = Peter Straub = American author and poet
1943 = Robert Williams = American painter and cartoonist
1950 = Karen Carpenter = American singer-songwriter
1952 = Laraine Newman = American actor and comedian
1962 = Jon Bon Jovi = American singer-songwriter and actor
1968 = Daniel Craig = English actor
1977 = Chris Martin = English singer-songwriter
1980 = Rebel Wilson = Australian actor and screenwriter
1981 = Bryce Dallas Howard = American actor
1988 = James Arthur = English singer-songwriter
1988 = Matthew Mitcham = Australian diver š
1990 = Luke Combs = American singer-songwriter
EVENTS
1901 = United States Steel Corporation is founded as a result of a merger between Carnegie Steel Company and Federal Steel Company which became the first corporation in the world with a market capital over $1 billion.
1903 = In New York City the Martha Washington Hotel opens, becoming the first hotel exclusively for women.
1933 = King Kong premieres at Radio City Music Hall and RKO Roxy.
1949 = The B-50 Superfortress Lucky Lady II landed in Fort Worth, Texas, to complete the first non-stop circumnavigation of the world by airplane.
1965 = The Sound of Music is released in theaters.
1978 ā The late iconic actor Charlie Chaplin's coffin is stolen from his grave in Switzerland.
1982 = Wisconsin becomes the first US state to outlaw discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation.
1983 = Compact discs and players are released for the first time in the United States and other markets. They had previously been available only in Japan.
1992 = Nirvana releases āCome As You Areā as a single.
1992 = Red Hot Chili Peppers release āUnder the Bridgeā as a single.
HOLIDAYS + OBSERVANCES
PORTRAIT + QUOTE OF THE DAY
āYou have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go.ā
Dr. Seuss
Please take good care of yourself, Clint. Your subscribers need your community spirit, insight, wit, and appreciation of the male form more than before we became a Russian colony. Please note that Rebel Wilson deserves a rainbow next to her name as she married her female sweetheart last December, according to Wiki. Final "please:" please be as kind to yourself as you are to us.
There's that perfectionism rearing its ugly head. At least, that's what it looks like to me. Maybe that sinus problem is letting you know that it's time to chill. We need to put our own oxygen masks on before helping the next guy.
There's nothing wrong with hard work. You're right... balance that hard work with (well-deserved) rest. We know this, yet it may take a lifetime to make it happen consistently. Keep up the good work! (After a break.)