“Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it.”
Confucius


VINTAGE PHOTOS

BUSTER CRABBE AS FLASH GORDON
CHARLES FARRELL
FEDERICO GARCÍA LORCA + SALVADOR DALÍ (POSSIBLY FAKE)

MUSIC

  • Sam Eber / Generations To Come

  • Sam Eber / When All Else Fades

  • Sam Eber / You Are Loved

  • Courtesy Of Epidemic Sound

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Dr Ray Lightbown's avatar

You have set me thinking (again). With my age and social background, I do not associate "pretty" with men. I might say that a femboy is pretty, though. I also think of "pretty" as an adjectival modifier - pretty good, pretty cheap. pretty disgusting. Enough!

I love the child soldiers but dislike that they are soldiers. I see the images of physical closeness and kissing with joy. Pretty good, Clint, pretty good.

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Clint Collide's avatar

Oh, you pretty, silly bitch…I hope you hear that with the sisterly love it is intended. I know “handsome” is more apropos for most men, but I find all the men in this particular montage P-R-E-T-T-Y. I’d love to be at their art opening. :-)

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Dr Ray Lightbown's avatar

I wasn't actually refusing the word for men. I do use beautiful for either sex/gender and can use pretty, too, if I remember to drop the prior inference and extend the nuance that anybofy can be seen as pretty.

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Clint Collide's avatar

I love how personal language and word choice can be. I often have to remind myself that words like “interesting” aren’t necessarily “bad.” My mom used it to describe anything she didn’t like or understand. A good Southern woman, she could be judge-y as fuck. Don’t know where I could have learned it from. Bless her mess, I truly miss her. She was interesting. And pretty too.

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Dr Ray Lightbown's avatar

A psychologist guy named George Kelly said that every person has their own connotational meaning or understanding of words. No 2 people have the exactly same meanings for the words they use. He called this theory personal constructs. He used Humpty Dumpty in Alice through the looking glass, as a prime example - 'When I use a word,' Humpty Dumpty said in rather a scornful tone, 'it means just what I choose it to mean - neither more nor less.' Clint, you have already a concept of this individual meaning idea.

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