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Fred Fahrquart's avatar

The fella on the right @ 6:12 has the same kind of hair I did. Two tone blond. By 35 it was all gone. I came home from college with hair down to my shoulders and my Dad flipped, ....until my Mom piped up and reminded him I wouldn't have any soon. Sadly, she was right.

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"Don't ask. Don't tell." was only half the law. The other half was "Don't pursue. Don't harrass." The second half was where the teeth were, IIRC. I don't remember specifics, but it was the job of the commanding officer to be aware if anyone under his command was engaging in harrassment or pursuit and to put an immediate stop to it. The intent was remove any incentives and provide severe consequences for sweeping anything under the rug. For the soldier causing the problem, 'gay panic' was not an acceptable defence.

Years later I read that even before the law was changed, many low level commanders were transferring their problem people to other assignments. Apparently many/most soldiers who had problems with gay soldiers ALSO were causing problems in unrelated ways.

This is what I've gleaned from numerous articles over the years.

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